divorced

we tried. we still love each other. no more battles.
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it's official. and bizarrely anti-climactic. you just sign some papers and show up in ex-parte, wait in line, the judge glances at the papers and signs and then says you're divorced "as of now"...strange. it wasn't enough hoopla for us, or for me, anyways, so we went to breakfast at brails, which was pretty good.

i think we'll always be quite dear friends and that's plenty for me. i will always love him, and i am deeply grateful to not be married to him anymore.

i feel: sad, sorry, relieved, bittersweet, heartachey, mellow, done...

i am grateful for:

self-help court proceedings
the friendship we've managed to maintain
coffee
love in all forms
peace